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I know.. i know..its been years since my last update, too many things happend and i've been so lazy to update my blog :)

Bryan is 3 years and 7 months now
and guess? he's gonna be BIG BROTHER next february :)

I'm pregnant with number 2...
so the gap age between them is 4 years and 2 months

I'm 12 weeks now..

compare to bryan, this time i feel much headache
but so far no morning sickness too *lucky me*

It's been 12 years...

We're celebrate our 12 years dating anniversary today...
just like last year..no flower...no card...
but we manage to have late dinner and catch up a coffee...
after my our little darling doze off at 7.30 PM :)

20 months

• Nap 1-2 times depend on his mood
• Love to smile and say cheesee everytime we want to take his picture
• monkey see monkey do with his cousin
  
• Moody eater
  
• Throwing things and tantrums
  
• Understand what I say and order
  
• Addicted to barney
• loves car
  
• milk intake 400cc-500cc
• 12,2 Kg
• still have limited words
  
• Emotional update : can be moody sometimes, refuse to be hold and prefer to sit on floor, if I'm not on his back.. he often wants to throw himself to floor but most of the time he'll calm down by himself after I hold him and say nicely things

Say chezzzz...

this is what Bryan monkey see-monkey do from his cousin, Naomi. everytime he knows that he want to be capture with camera, he'll put his fingers in his cheek, smile and say cheeezzz...oh and don't forget to "miringin dikit pala-nya" (put his head sideways little bit).

we're going for breakfast with Jason parents last Sunday, Jason is only 1 month younger than Bryan, I know Jason mommy from pregnancy forum Nov-Dec 07- Jan 08, we've regularly meet each others (with other mommies and their toddlers from forum) every month,but since Jason parents also live in kelapa gading area and loves food hunting, last sunday we're decide to hunting new restaurant together. the boys are playing together, take nap together while the parents are gossiping :)

I think toddlers learning faster if they see other toddlers doing something, for example... I've try to teach bryan word "FISH" but he never say it (as you can see there's an aquarium behind Bryan) but, after he heard jason repeat "FISH" so many times and point to an aquarium, suddenly yesterday he said word FISH! WOW! I think FISH is harder to say rather than KUKU, BOBO (sleeping),SUSU (milk), I've try to teach him to call his KUKU almost 2 months now and he still can't say it! and for Jason, he become expert in doing pose cheesseee after see bryan :).

Favorite corner

"when I don't want to change clothes,I'll hide here.. "

"this is after mommy raise her voice, get ready to scold me"

"I'll pretend to cry to seek mommy attention"
"MAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAAMAMA..."

"oh..I think mommy camera is more interesting now"

this is he's fav. corner in our room, when he's wailing and refuse to do what I'm said.. he'll run to this corner and don't want to come out!! *shake head*

Clueless

I'm clueless.. in finding the best way to teach Bryan discipline, having many people at home make him BIG HEAD!! for example.. If I'm scold him after he makes a mistake, he'll cry out loud to attract everybody attention, when he see someone who approach him when he's cry..he'll cry out even louder just like reporting that he's being scold by me and asking them to hold him, then..after he's in their arms,suddenly he'll stop cry!! but, if there's no one at home when I scold him, he'll not dare to move and will follow me everywhere (mostly he's running around the house and ignore when I said to sit nicely or asking to follow me)

the one who looks like his all time hero is my maid (who usually play and take care of bryan while I'm cooking,bath, or away for a while to market). I already ask her to get away everytime I'm discipline him, but still.. since the maid never scold him, he'll become big head in front of her!

this past few weeks i've notice that Bryan getting emotional attach with her,it's all start when bryan is having a nightmare and trouble sleep during nights, sometimes he can cry out loud while his eyes still close when I try to hold him, he'll refuse, throwing himself back to his box and cry even louder, Jaya and I trying hard to make him stop crying but failed! until my sis in law is knocking on my door and bring my maid inside my room. she's hold bryan in her arms and bryan stop cry right away!! *sigh* don't ask...I'm so jealous that time!

he knows and understand when I said "don't touch or mommy will pat your hands" but mostly he'll still doing it, so I'll ask where's your hand..he'll give his hands to me to pat and after that running away and DO IT AGAIN!! arghh...!! he still put everything into his mouth, still throwing things on floor and can pretend to cry with big drop of tears.

the one thing that makes me bit relieve now is he'll follow my words when we're outside, as long as we're not let him walk in outside..he can sit nicely on his pram, and when we're going to my mom house, he'll not dare to touch anything that I'm not allow him to touch! so everyone who see my little rascal outside always give me compliment! mostly they'll tell that he's a good boy, very calm and obedient (since he can sit nicely on his pram without wailing to get away). *shake head*

seriously, I'm clueless...

Blessed

During our honeymoon cruise @ Halong Bay

Us :)

I've found this link and the story successfully bring tears to my eyes...and I feel blessed after reading it, we're never know what tomorrow will hold so everyday before I go to bed and after I wake up in the morning.. I start my day with morning prayer for my darling husband to have safe trip as he drive car to work,for my little Bryan, for my parents and brothers.

love your loved one like there's no tomorrow maybe it's not an easy thing to do, there's always an upside down in relationship but..I'm trying hard to do so :)